=) Hey Brain =)

I'm talking to you..
You know what, you are always the best..
and u must know that u can beat the rest...
They are were just tiny enemies, but ur biggest enemy is when u fail to make an effort..
u were here to pursue your dreams..
I know that u can turn out to be someone that others would never know that u can do..
It is never be an issue to be different and show others ur true colours....
<3 <3

Dah Terhantuk Baru Nak Terngadah...

• Always find other's mistakes instead of acknowledging themselves first...
• Did not appreciate what they have but when the thing dissapears, only then they'll regret..
• Always look high upon other's success instead of trying to make differences in themselves.
• Always saying badwords instead of knowing that they are knocking another door of hell for themselves.
• Always being the troublemaker and love to be that without knowing that they are creating bad names for themselves
• Keeping themselves unknown without knowing that they are left far behind.. :P
• Afraid to try something new without any concrete reason.
• Speaks loudly, but less work...
• Jump into conclusion without specific or at least some reasonable research on the things that they hear from somebody else..
• Pretend to be someone else when they want something badly, then dump it whenever  and wherever they want to..
• Keep saying something that is not what they did not want to say, but saying it sympathetically...

Love Yourself Before You Love Somebody Else

 Here are 17 ways which I believe can be helpful:

1. Fall in love with yourself. Think about what makes you You. Just like a flower that needs watering to grow, learn to nurture yourself in every way. Love yourself for all the good that you see and accept your flaws and the fact that you are imperfect. This does not mean that you do not learn to change from your shortcomings; instead, you are being gentle and kind to yourself despite all your “flaws”. Look in the mirror and fall in love with the reflection that is You.

“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.”
Oscar Wilde quotes (Irish Poet, Novelist, Dramatist and Critic, 1854-1900)

2. Eliminate Self Criticism. Do you often berate yourself over the tiniest thing? Is there a little voice inside your head that often tells you that you are no good because you are stupid or make mistakes. If you find that you criticize yourself often, make an effort to stop the self criticism.

“I CAN is 100 times more important than IQ.” — unknown

3. Be Kind And Positive. When you start to think kindly and positively about yourself, the love you have for yourself just grows. Make it a habit to praise yourself everyday, while in the front of the mirror. Because of such thoughts, you naturally undertake empowering actions that support your development.

4. Acknowledge Your Effort. It’s not always about winning or having success in everything that you do. Many times, it is the effort that counts! Acknowledge that you’ve done your best, even if you have failed to produce tangible results.

“There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.” — Epictetus quotes (Greek philosopher associated with the Stoics, AD 55-c.135)

5. Let Go Of Worry. Loving yourself requires you to let go of your worry. It is a horrible way to live a life filled with constant worrying. I can attest to that! Worry does not help in any way. It cannot, on its own, make things happen. Only wise actions can! So instead of worrying, spend time thinking about what you can do to help in the situation. If the situation is beyond your control, then ask the Universe for your desired outcome and let things work out on their own. Things will come to be, if they are meant to be.

6. Trust Yourself. Have confidence in your abilities. Know that you have the ability to make important changes for yourself, for as long as you put your heart to it. You can also support yourself by visualizing desired outcomes.

“Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.”
Benjamin Spock quotes (American Pediatrician and Author, 1903-1998)

7. Forgive Yourself. If you have made mistakes in the past that had caused you to feel less worthy, then you need to forgive yourself. All of us make mistakes; so there really is no need to beat yourself up over them. Or if you’ve been carrying around a baggage of emotional hurt because of a childhood trauma, learn to forgive yourself.

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”
Lewis B. Smedes quotes

8. Be Truthful To Yourself. Loving yourself requires you to be truthful about your own feelings. If you are happy, acknowledge the joy. If you are sad, acknowledge the sorrow. When you are truthful about your feelings, you do not try to lie to yourself or seek to bury your negative emotions. Instead, acknowledging what you feel provides a good guide to what your thoughts are. And as we all know, thoughts can be changed, so that healing and self growth can take place.

9. Grow Spiritually. When you spend time growing spiritually, loving yourself is an automatic thing. You become more peaceful, connected, kind, loving and compassionate. You nurture a mind that grows more beautiful by the day. How to not love yourself in the process?

10. Make Positive Affirmations Everyday. Post affirmations that can help raise your self esteem everyday. For instance, say this to yourself “I love and accept myself completely and unconditionally.” Read your affirmations out loud several times a day.

11. Express Gratitude. Express gratitude for the person that you are. For instance, cultivate an appreciation for your strengths and gifts. Also, feel a sense of gratitude that you are alive and well, and fully capable of making a difference in your life.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. —Mark Twain

12. Nurture Your Dreams. Why deny yourself your dreams? When you nurture your dreams, you would love the life that you are leading. Every moment that you live is a joy because you are expressing yourself fully.

13. Boost Your Self Confidence. Make a deliberate attempt to look for opportunities that can help improve your sense of Self. For instance, if you are particularly good at doing something, set aside more time to indulge and improve your skills on it. Knowing that you have particular gifts can boost your self esteem.

14. Relax. You need to give yourself space to take breaks every now and then. If you spend your time working, without paying attention to your health, it also means that you do not love yourself well enough to take care of your own body. Fill your time with silence, soothing music and visions of beauty; anything that nourishes your Soul.

15. Have Fun. Inject some fun into your life. Life is meant to be an enjoyable. Don’t take life or yourself too seriously. If you can think of life in this manner, you automatically relax and quit worrying over things that do not matter.

16. Look After Your Body. It is important that you strengthen yourself with proper nutrition and regular exercise. Your body is a temple and you should treat it with respect, love and care. It has been found that the lack of self love is often the root causes of conditions like eating disorders, obesity or even terminal diseases.

“Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.”
Jim Rohn quotes (American Speaker and Author. He is famous for motivational audio programs for Business and Life. )

17. Learn To See Beauty. When you learn to see beauty in every thing, you will also see beauty in yourself. Hence, stop to smell the flowers. Notice everything. Feel everything. The pink blush of the flowers in your garden, the greenness of the plains, the whisper of the gentle wind, or the myriad hues of an evening sky.

Their Faces....

To u....

• While u r running, u slipped over ur own legs n u fell down... u think that no one was there for u.. but when u turned back, u saw me there.. Always there to rush to u n hold ur back... The one who always there during ur bad days but willing to be invinsible during ur happy moment..I dun mind, cuz i know, I've done my best for U TILL THE END..

• When u are sleeping soundly, I feel very happy. Bcuz I know, U have gone through a rough day but U still strive to make out the best ..

• When u speaks badwords/cursing, doesn't mean that u hate him/her/ me either..Thats the way u r... 

• When u are having ur moodswing, I know that is not a good time to talk sensitive matter with u..I know u need time to chill bcuz u'll turn to me one day and explain  more about that.

• When U plays the song that I loved the most, U know I'll shed tears bcuz it is amazing that U sang it although it is not for me...

• When U hang out with ur friends, I don't care much because I know, Ur frens are always there for u too and they completed u as ONE...

• When U told stories about things that I already knew, I dun mind listening to it over and over again bcuz ur voice was so calming...

• When I ask U," r u ok?" I'm always wondering would u mind to answer at least saying "OK".Receiving that kind of text might be trigger anger for other girls, but not for me. I'm glad that u r OK...

• I dun mind if U x trust me, as long as I do trust U..

• I dun mind if U say badwords to me, as long as I dun say those to U...

• I dun mind if U hate me for this, as long as I LOVE U...

Ladies and gentlemen;

• LOVING SOMEONE DOESN'T MEAN THAT U OWNS THAT PERSON.SOMETIME U HAVE TO STAY ON THE DARK SIDE AND KEEP TO YOURSELF TO MAKE HIM/HER HAPPY.. 
• LOVING SOMEONE DOESN'T MEAN THAT U HAVE TO BE NEXT TO HIM/HER, SOMETIME U NEED TO GIVE HIM/HER THE SPACES TO BE HIMSELF/HERSELF... 
• LOVING SOMEONE IS ACCEPTING, NOT COMPLAINING...
• LOVING SOMEONE IS SACRIFICING, NOT TO LET THINGS GET WORST.AS LONG AS U KNOW WHAT U ARE DOING, U ARE FREE FROM ANY ACCUSATIONS, SINS,VIOLENCE AND EVEN OFFENSES.... 

To all lovely people around me....

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she’s blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He’s always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she can see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?” The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend is blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying. “Just take care of my eyes dear.”

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This is how human brain changes when the status changed.

 Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations.

• Life is A Gift.
• Today before you think of saying an unkind word – Think of someone who can’t speak.
• Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
• Before you complain about your husband or wife – Think of someone who’s crying out for a companion.
• Today before you complain about life – Think of someone who went too early to heaven/hell.
• Before you complain about your children – Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.
• Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep – Think of the people who are living in the streets.
• Before whining about the distance you drive – Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
• And when you are tired and complain about your job – Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.
• But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another – Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.
• And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down – Put a smile on your face and thank — you’re alive and still around

Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, And Fulfill it.